People looking for lasting relationships don’t try to change their lovers much they mostly do the sifting before actually getting involved with someone. Those who look for lasting relationships either adjust themselves or accept their lovers just the way they are! Knowing the golden truth that you can’t change a person unless that person too wants it!
If you are really matured and are looking for a lasting relationship you should do it too, just don’t get involved seriously with those persons whose faults are insufferable to you. Because I have seen the rage that “nagging” causes, sooner or later people get really furious if someone is constantly nagging, trying to change that person.
When you are living with a person 24×7 soon you will start to notice his/her faults and they may hide virtues if they are too annoying to you, but if it is the other way round, virtues hiding faults in the long run, well you have made the right choice.
This is what veterans say too!